Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Vera Smith with the following comment:
Doug Smith and Vera Smith are my X father and mother in-laws. I attended Vera's funeral in 1992, however my divorce to their daughter occurred in 2001 and I wasn't invited to Doug's funeral in 2009. Doug wasn't only my father but remained one of my dearest friends, until his death. I know he died in 2009 but for my family records I need to know not only the month and day he died but I'm also looking for Doug's and Vera's date of birth. I know this may seem like a weird request but I assure you Doug and Vera will always be part of my life and family. Thank You, Terry